The Shy Girl's Guide to Finding Her Voice on the Disney Magic

By Community Member · Disney Magic (Disney Cruise Line)

I came aboard the Disney Magic as a wallflower—but the ship's social events had other plans for my personality.

I need to be honest about something: I booked this cruise alone because I was trying to prove something to myself. Not to anyone else—to me. I'm thirty-two years old and painfully introverted. I've spent the last decade taking comfortable solo vacations where I could eat room service, read books, and avoid human interaction entirely. But somewhere along the way, I started feeling like maybe I was missing something. So I booked a seven-day Disney Cruise Line voyage on the Disney Magic, alone, which was either the bravest or dumbest thing I've ever done. The thing about Disney cruises is that they're... social. They're really social. From the moment you board, there's this relentless cheerfulness and scheduling that basically forces you into proximity with other human beings. There are deck parties and character meet-and-greets and trivia contests and group dinners and "meet your muster station" gatherings. It's introvert's nightmare fuel. I'd planned to skip most of it. I looked at my cruise information packet and mentally circled the activities I could reasonably avoid. The Broadway-style shows (mandatory attendance, basically, so fine), but the social mixers? No. The trivia conte…